Did you ever see the movie, "Mickey's Once Upon a Christmas"? Yes, it is Mickey Mouse. Anyway, in a short story about Donald Duck's three nephews reliving Christmas day over and over until they learn the "true" meaning of Christmas, the three reek havoc on Christmas morning. They hurt the family's feelings, ruin Christmas dinner, even cause the tree to fall, breaking all of the ornaments. In sad disbelief of the total disaster all around, the aunt cries out, "What a Christmas this turned out to be."
We expect Christmas to be "perfect." The decorations. The lights. The presents. The food.
Our Christmas was much more "Some Christmas this turned out to be" than Norman Rockwell (or Thomas Kinkade).
We had gotten weather that prevented us from spending very much time with my family. What was supposed to be a whole weekend turned out to be a few short hours celebrating Ashely's birthday and two Christmases- one with my family and one with Brian's. Hours spent planning and searching for "perfect presents" and anticipation to see their faces when they opened them were traded for the disappointment of leaving the gifts at my mom's to be picked up by my sister and her family another time.
Brian had not been feeling well since Thanksgiving. So, with Daddy sick off and on, many of our usual traditions were not done this year.
My sweet friend Jamie passed away on December 19th. (Please read here about Jamie.) Attending her wake and funeral made some holiday activities just seem irrelevant. Honestly, I just didn't "feel" like doing some things.
On Christmas Eve, Brian and I had gotten to bed around 12:30. The last of the presents were wrapped and in Santa's present spot near the fireplace. Cookies that had been left out were eaten. The video camera was out, charged and ready for the next morning. "Brian and I had just settled down for a long winter's nap."
3 A.M. Aaron,our 5 year old came into our bedroom telling me he had just gotten sick. He was up again at 6:30. Yep. The poor little guy had the stomach flu and threw up all through opening Santa's presents. After that, he gave up and asked to go up to his bed.
When I got up with Aaron at 6:30, I knew I was not feeling well. But, being the mommy on Christmas morning, I ignored it, got up and with as much excitement I could muster, watched the kids open all of their gifts. When they finished, my fever had gotten so high, that I could not function. I spent Christmas day in bed with a high fever and a bowl next me.
As I spent the day wallowing, praying, being angry with God, rebuking the sickness, asking for Jesus' healing....I thought about our message on Christmas Eve. The pastor had reminded us from a previous sermon about how their family had picked the "perfect" Christmas tree that year, but, even on Christmas Eve, that all of the "perfect" preparations were still not finished at their home.
He then went on to remind us that the perfect Christmas didn't have a tree, or decorations, or a fancy meal....the perfect Christmas didn't have Christmas cards.....the perfect Christmas didn't have fancy wrapped packages....the perfect Christmas had a humble baby in a manger that came to love and live and die for us. The perfect Christmas was when Jesus was born and His promise to all of us.
The "perfect" Christmas isn't about presents, but about His Presence.
In bed, Christmas Day, I thought about all these things....praying and pondering.
No matter what our circumstances. No matter what the weather. No matter if we get to "do" all of our favorite traditions.
Even if we "lose" a precious loved one.
These "things" don't "make" Christmas.
Jesus makes Christmas.
His gift to us makes Christmas.
His love makes Christmas.
The "perfect" Christmas was when a sweet young girl surrendered to her Lord and when her husband obeyed Him. They traveled to Bethlehem. There was no room in the inn for them to stay so they found a stable on the outskirts of town. Sometime during the night, a precious baby was born. A Savior. Immanuel. Messiah. A soft, warm, crying baby wrapped in swaddling clothes and placed in a manger. Angels glorified Him. Shepherds worshipped Him.
What a Christmas this turned out be! Hallelujah!
























































